Bully Control

Bully Control

Has someone ever have bullied you before? Everyone’s answer should be a yes. So how do you control your feelings when someone bullies you? So today’s blog will teach you how you control your feelings when someone bullies you.

Bad Things

So first let’s talk about what you wouldn’t do when someone bullies you. When someone says something mean to you or bullies you, you might have the temptation to punch, kick, or walk away. I wouldn’t do any of these. First, let’s talk about how punching or kicking isn’t good. Punching and kicking, by the way, isn’t good. It is’t kind. But that isn’t the point. If you punch or kick, it might result in a serious fight, and you, even though you weren’t the bully, might get in trouble. Unless you want to be unkind back and don’t care about getting hurt or getting in trouble.


Now let’s talk about how walking away might also be a no-no. Even though you might want some privacy, walking away might make the bully think “Oh, he’s so afraid that he doesn’t even know how to fight”! Sometimes the bully might tell other people. Walking away might result in even more bullying. You think you might get privacy when you walk away, but really, the bully won’t stop. You know what? Actually, here’s a fact. People who walk away when they are bullied tend to cry. Well, cry silently, but they do get tears out of their eyes. And you know what a bully might do if he sees you cry? Later, they might tell their friends! Though even if you walk away, someone might come and help you. But I still don’t feel comfortable with the bully bullying you.


Here’s another no-no. (He,y fistr tell me what a no-no is, and stop bulying me because i dont spel well.) Trying to make yourself look cool (I mean the type like Ooh, hey Sarah, I’m your ------). Ok, trying to make yourself cool will result in laughter. The bully might be like “Hey Isabella, is he trying to act cool?” Trying to make yourself cool is just silly. First of all, you’re not cool if you try to make yourself look cool. Second, the bully might just laugh and rumor may spread. So don’t even try to make yourself look cool when someone bullies you.

Good Things

Remember you don’t want to hit anyone, walk away, or try to act cool. So let’s talk about something you would do. When someone bullies you, you want to say “STOP” at them. Like when your annoyed. You also want to talk about it. Let’s say: “I don’t like it when you ____, can you please stop?” I noticed that strategy works. If it doesn’t go well, you can send them a note later.


Unfortunately, this is the only good strategy I could use. This blog is really for serious bullying. So changing the subject or just agreeing with the bully won’t work. Really.


But I still hope this article was helpful to you. If you have any other good or bad suggestions, you can post it in the comments section below. HA! CHICKEN POOP! You can’t even spell, I hope you go back to kindergarten! Pssss… hey Bob, this person doesn’t even know how to spell! HA HA HA! (Post what you would do in the comments section below.)